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The first key is to open up and deepen your breath during the massage. Most of us tend to restrict our breathing to our upper chest area. Try breathing into your belly so it expands and fills on each in-breath. For the more advanced, feel the breath go deeper into your pelvic region. One can learn to feel the anus actually relax on the in-breath. Funny enough, babies all breath this way, one can see the anus go in and out on every breath.
Breathing this way really connects the energy centers in the body together and helps build the energy for full body orgasms.
The second key is to really relax all areas of the body during the tantra massage practice. Take your attention to the sensations in the body and look for areas where there is tightness and tension. Just relax those areas. The person massaging you can also tell you where you are holding tension. As you get aroused, particularly relax the buttocks. This can help you not come.
The third key is to make sounds of pleasure on the out-breath. This allows the energy to move out of the pelvic region up to the heart and fills the body with energy. Instead of the energy being expelled in a ejaculation orgasm it https://en.search.wordpress.com/?src=organic&q=sexshop eindhoven can move through your whole body eventually leading to a full body orgasm.
All these tips can also be used by any man in sexual intercourse.